Thursday, January 28, 2016

So lately my life has been very very very stressful I have separated parents and some times I do not feel comfortable at my moms so my dad and my step mom are going to court to try to make it so I can not spend any more nights at my moms. I do not want that. The reason I do not feel comfortable over there is because she drinks a little too much some times so my parents emailed her to tell her stop and she did i was so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so GLAD!!!!! But they still went to court and my mom won. I was glad. Then I went over to her house that night and I was going to spend the night but then I wanted to go back to dads so my mom was very supportive. I do not want to spend the nights at her house anymore. I hate that I feel bad about feeling that way. So now I am stuck and I do not know what to do. Any advice would be great.  

12 comments:

  1. Hi Koya!!
    Let me know if your good ol' uncle Jamin can do anything. You're the best and I love you very much. I can't wait to go shoot our bows and arrows together. I think it's next week sometime, ask your dad. Love ya.

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  2. PS. Hey! I'm obsessed with the end of the world too! Yea!!!

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  3. PS. Hey! I'm obsessed with the end of the world too! Yea!!!

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  4. Life is challenging some times. But I find that, sometimes bad things need to happen in order for the best things to have room. It will work itself out.

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  5. ❤️ U to the moon and back
    -Aunt Kia

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  6. You are so brave, girl! Your dad and J love you so much, and Mom too!

    Do you know what it means to "pay yourself first?" It means to take care of YOU first, before you take care of others. It's hard at your age, since you don't always get to make the decisions. But you can be honest and share how your feel with your grown ups. Make sure YOU feel safe first, then spend energy on making other people happy. Also, do your homework. And clean your room.

    Love you, and SO proud of you!!
    Aunt Kia

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  7. The adults in your life want to make sure you're safe and happy. Sometimes they're clumsy and sometimes their feelings get hurt. But they recover. And they always have a common goal: You, Koya, safe and happy. And you are worthy of all the love.

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  8. You are amazing, and nothing that happens in your life can take away your light. I am so proud of you for being brave enough to express your needs and feelings. There are many adults who don't know how to do that. Please let me know if I can do anything to help or support you. I love you!

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  9. Thanks so much for your guys advice it really helped out!

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